How many times do we feel bad about not doing what we were supposed to do and easily blame it on the other person? More often than not it is lack of confidence that makes us behave that way. So, what are some of the simple steps we can take to build our confidence?

1.  Start by loving yourself: Be kind to self and shower yourself with beautiful uplifting words like ….you kept your promise of clearing the dishes last night, how dependable you are, you are the most beautiful person God created (it does not matter what others think). 
2. Feel good about what you wear:  It is important to feel comfortable and smart in what you dress in. Life is too short to put on ugly clothes that elicit such comments from self “damn why did I have to bump into Kate when I was wearing this dress; I wish we could have met yesterday – does that sound familiar? When you are smart that immediately boosts your confidence especially when you get complimented by a person you least expected. 
3.  Groom yourself: Nobody really cares why you are not well groomed and that can have a negative impact if  the first comment you hear on a Monday morning is …”when are you getting your hair done” or “was there no iron-box where you came from”. Always check your hair, shoes, clothes, socks, breath, nails …… 
4. Respecting self: Once you respect yourself….others will respect you and will want to hear what you have to say. As the saying goes respect begets respect and one of the things human beings crave for is the need to be heard. 
5. Trust yourself: The minute you do so, you will know that you are at least accountable for your actions. Trust boosts confidence as you do not flicker or have doubts about the issue at hand.